Music and the relationships it builds.

Well having a look at my last post and that was in 2011 its about time to start writing again. Yet today I'm not here to just talk about music. It more to do with music and the bonds and connections we make over it. If you ask one in two people why they are friends with their closest friends they'll say its the music. Most people in a relationship may it be just a platonic bromance its all about the music, just think about it. Looking back at all the different connections I've made over the years good and bad there has always been an element of music attached to. It may not be the main basis of the friendship that you both like it but at times just the difference in opinions can create that bond. 

Take me and my mate Shimmy for instance he's a kick ass producer and at times has the most amazing beats I've ever heard mixed, there is at times a Timbaland meets Pharell sort of Vibe that he gives off which is sick and if you get a half decent artist to spit on it, people would actually be in the club listening to acting like "I'ma get ma groove on to this shit". Yet when I listen to some of my Indie music at times he feels it's not interesting at all and the debate where we start of with music and how our difference of opinions becomes a good medium of discussion. 

On the other hand is well my ex (just like the famous mordern day fictional character we shall call her "she who must not be named" ) though our relationship didn't work out - for other reasons that are not a matter of discussion - there was one thing that connected us more than anything and that was the music we loved. We spent hours on the phone (Long distance at that) discussing as to how certain artist just gave that feeling you needed according to the situation you were in. We spoke about Death Cab, Nada Surf, we covered most of the indie rock genre. I even tried introducing her to Rap music (my attempts were well unsuccessful to say the least) yet it brought us closer.

Moving away from my example, one of the truest relationships I have seen in my life growing up my mom and dad, where there are still memories I have of my parents dancing to dire straights or my dad waking us up to some of the most influential music in my life. Deep Purple blasting through the house, mom playing Neil Diamond and those are memories you will never forget. Mom and Dad singing Rod Stewart while Baby Bro and I cringe that Rod Stewart should never hear either of them sing!!! 

Yet one of the finest aspects of how music helps build a relationship can be seen at any concert you go for. Stand in the crowd (cause well only an idiot would buy the sitting tickets) tens of thousand of people standing together waiting for the artist to come on stage sweating it out bumping into each other. The moment that artist strums the first string or drops that beat and everyone just lives in that moment for a few seconds or minutes shows you the bonds it forms gives you the true reason of how music can help form bonds. How you can have thousands of people jumping together in unison, shows you the power a song can have to build bonds.

Keeping that in mind here is the track of the day and of the year, one of my personal favorites for no other reason than this artist has the the ability to hold a crowd like no other. His tickets sell quicker than an air conditioner on the hottest day of the year. Mr Bruce Springsteen 

Will it still be there ?

Five, that's how old I was when I remember my dad putting the song on for me that made fall in love with music, Bruce Springsteen - Born in the USA, I remember listening to the song and just loving the tune. Now that I've grown up and listen to the song it catches me even more, "I had a brother at Khe Sahn, Fighting off the Viet Cong, They're still there, he's all gone". Music then was moving, it captivated you. Many might question where I am going with this?

Well this is a thought that came into my brain the other day when I was in the car driving my fourteen year old brother to the market. We had been driving and with the traffic in this country it can mean for hours because the traffic is terrible hence why I feel it is more important to have a good stereo in the car rather than all the weird things people put on it. We had been listening to radio and they had been playing some new song with a god awful farting noise in it, though it seem to have caught my brother's attention and he was enjoying it so I let the song play, after which I decided to Plug in my pen drive and listen to some Led Zeppelin, Bad Company, maybe even some Metallica and some new Indie Band I had found with a pretty good sound so I put it in and the first song that came up was Bad Company by Bad Company (one of my favorites if I might add) when all of a sudden I have this huge scream in my ear because I changed the music. Apparently for him this old music was not as interesting as Nikki Minaj's new song, which is funny cause the minute I put his music back on it was the same god awful farting tune.

So then I began to think will the music that I was introduced to through my parents still be there when I have kids (which is like a good eight to nine years away haha!) will they know what it's like to hear a guitarist like Slash or Steve Vai play solos that just kill it? Or will club music over powers years of rock's beautiful lyrics and melodies so that generations ahead will never know what it felt like to hear Hotel California by the Eagles for the first time and love it?

Some Might feel that I am tearing down modern music for no reason, Don't get me wrong I am not at all doing that. I understand that there are those who like this type and music and good for them, but all I want to say is that never forget the old guard.

Don't have many followers so this won't reach very far but those who do read it just give it a think. Here are two of my favorites for you to listen to I give you firstly:

Bob Dylan - Tambourine Man


and

The Eagles - Hotel California

Cause I'm just that Bored!

Wicked lines be bringing me down;
No one see tear behind the face of this clown;
Going through life in different phases;
but my heart's a fool don't all these different places;
Your hearts maybe a kings but mine's aces.
The pain has been forced to be subliminal there are no traces.
Been at the point of no return;
Kept going straight till I created my own U turn;
been at the end of every burn;
Life's one big lesson you just need to learn;
Son don't be acting the fool;
They just try to break cause they think it's cool
It's ain't their fault they got stuck in the wrong gene-pool
Just walk away son one day they'll realize it's you that will rule.

The reason these lines don't have a beat cause I'm waiting for ma boy Chimuka to make em !

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Hope for Life

Ok so well unless one has been living under a rock everyone knows about the earthquake that shook Haiti. The losses are great and it will take ages before the country is returned to normal. It needs all the support it can get, so if u wish to help please go to: www.hopeforhaitinow.org Do all you can

Party Time !!!

Aight since the end of college for the semester, just been chillin. Partyin like crazy in KL and Singapore (and for the ignorant few that will say isn't KL and Singapore the same. No its not KL is Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia and Singapore is separate country altogether)and am off to India to party it up some more. The best part of Singapore was the fact that I went back to my old sneak spots, place where we would hide during school hours. Took photos, partied with my friend Imraan and Simon both legends in their own way. Now I'm back in KL partyin here with my college friends its awesome. Last night my mates brought booze and came to my place and we drank like crazy then jumped in the pool for a dip at 4 in the morning! hahaha Hungover this morning :D We all slept like at after 7 in the morning. So for such classic night its time to give everyone a song about this.
I give u a cover of "Party like a Rockstar" Originally by the Shop Boyz.

What I love Doing !

k There are very few things in life that I love doin, Partyin, Eating, Playing Basketball But nothing is more of my passion than listening to a song and finding it online. Recently i was goin through my One tree Hill Collection and I found a song and I really wanted it so went online checked what the song was and downloaded it. Its a a Song by Starsailor called "Faith Hope Love" Amazing song and the best part is I found the song on Youtube to give u as a Video :D
Here you go:

All done !!!

Well the exams are over and done with now just comes the blissful part of waiting to know ones Fate hahaha !!! Hence i thought good time to update the Blog here is a song that I like though its from a soundtrack of an OK movie, the music is always good lol !!

Anyways here is
Death Cab for Cutie - 'Meet Me On The Equinox'